An incident has happened in Beawar, Rajasthan, which has shaken the entire area. A father printed cards for the thirteenth day ceremony of his daughter who was alive, that too on the occasion of her marriage. This incident not only became a topic of discussion in the area, but also went viral on social media. People are shocked to see this step of the father and his behavior has become a big question for the society.
This incident has come to light from a small village in Beawar city, where a father printed condolence cards for his daughter, in which it was written that "Uthaavan will be on 11 December". Now you must be wondering how can this happen? Actually, this father's daughter had married a boy from a different society (intercaste) and after this she flatly refused to recognize her parents. This incident is related to a family dispute, in which a conflict of emotions, relationships and expectations of society came to the fore.
Daughter insulted the family
The father says that he raised his daughter with a lot of love and dedicated his whole life to her education and well-being. He was a simple driver who worked hard to give his children a better future. He dreamed of making his daughter a teacher and motivated her in this direction. But when his daughter decided to marry a boy from a different society, he was completely shattered. The father alleged that the daughter not only broke his dreams, but she also distanced herself from the family. She not only stopped talking to her parents, but also refused to take their name. According to the father, the situation became so serious that he started considering his daughter dead and he got a condolence letter printed and distributed it in the entire village. It was written in this condolence letter that his daughter's Uthaavan (day of farewell to the dead person in Western culture) will be on December 11.
Decision to go away from the family
Many statements have also come from the daughter's side in this incident. The daughter says that she did not marry under any wrong decision. She explained to her parents repeatedly, but when they did not listen, she decided to live her life independently. The family had no involvement in her marriage and she had told them that she does not consider them to be any relationship. The daughter claims that her decision should not have had any effect on the family, but when her parents treated her in such a manner, she completely broke contact with them.
A strange and controversial step
This step of the father shook the entire area. By printing the condolence card, he not only considered his daughter dead, but also insulted her publicly. This step not only challenges the dignity of family relationships, but is also against the traditional stream of society. The condolence card had the daughter's name along with the date of December 11, the day on which according to him his daughter's funeral was to be held. It was also written in the card that "Uthaavan will be held on 11 December", which makes it clear that the father had completely considered his daughter dead. It did not take long for this condolence letter to go viral on social media. People are considering this step as extremely insensitive and highly emotional. Some people tried to understand the father's situation, while most called it an extreme and inhuman step.
Uproar on social media
This incident quickly made headlines on social media and people reacted fiercely to it. Some people called it a bad example of distance in family relationships, while some tried to understand the emotional suffering of the father. A big debate has started on social media, in which people are talking about the rights of the father on one hand, and on the other hand are giving importance to the personal freedom of the daughter.
Conflict between family, society and personal freedom
This incident has given rise to a big social and family question. Love, expectations and understanding are important in relationships, but sometimes these family structures become weak in front of personal freedom and choice. There are disagreements and disputes in the relationship of a father and daughter, but is it right to humiliate a family in such a public way? Should one face such a backlash for going against the conventional norms of society? This incident demands answers to all these questions. In a society where people are open about their choices and decisions, family understanding and support is of immense importance. This incident proved that relationships, be it family or society, sometimes break down due to the lack of that silent understanding and sensitivity that keeps any relationship strong.
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